Dari Allah kita datang, pada Allah kita kembali.
Semoga Kak Ros dihimpunkan bersama hamba-hambaNya yang dikasihi.
A very fine lady, a very dedicated employee, a very good listener, a very good leader, a very good sister, a very good friend.
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Al-Fatihah.
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
Kerja
A friend share something with me today...
Let us share what Datuk Dr. Fadilah Kamsah used to say :
"Ada orang datang ke pejabat dengan perasaan penuh gembira & ceria ,
ada datang dengan perasaan "biasa" dan ada datang dengan perasaan serba tak kena ."
Ingat lah, sesiapa yang datang hanya dengan perasaan "biasa" saja,
hasilnya adalah "biasa" saja, sesiapa yang datang dengan ceria,
hasilnya akan jadi lebih daripada biasa ataupun luar biasa.
Bekerja la dengan ceria agar menghasilkan produktiviti yang luar biasa yang
akan menggembirakan orang di sekeliling kita.
Semoga hasil itu akan mendapat keberkatan insyallah..."
Jadi renungkan lah....
1. Ada antara kita datang ke pejabat hanya memenuhi tanggungjawab 'DATANG BEKERJA' tapi hampa,
hasilnya macam kita ' TAK DATANG' kerja
2. Ada kala kita rasa kita BUSY giler, rupanya kita hanya 'KELAM KABUT' .
3. Adakala kita rasa kita PERIHATIN , tapi rupanya kita BUSY BODY.
4. Adakala kita rasa kita OPENMINDED and OUTSPOKEN tapi rupanya kita KURANG PENGAJAR'AN.
5. Adakala kita rasa kita berpemikiran KRITIS , rupanya kita hanya lebih kepada
KRITIK yang mencipta KRISIS .
6. Adakala kita rasa kita ingin menjadi LEBIH MESRA tapi rupanya kita di lihat lebih MENGADA-NGADA .
7. Adakala kita suka bertanya 'KENAPA DIA NI MCM TAKDE KEJE', adalah lebih baik kita tanya
'APA LAGI KEJE YANG AKU BOLEH BUAT ?'
8. Adakala kita rasa kita ni pekerja yang SEMPURNA,BAIK DAN BERDEDIKASI tapi cuba tengok dalam-dalam,selagi hati kita berdengki,jatuhkan reputasi sesama rakan sekerja (report kat bos kawan kita tak bagus dari kita)dan tak amanah (mencuri dan tak siapkan kerja),kita sebenarnya patut terima hakikat betapa kita lebih teruk dari anggapan kita itu sendiri.
Pejam mata dan renung lah diri, kalau kita perlu melakukan ANJAKAN PARADIGMA ,
maka lakukanlah segera...tapi manusia tetap manusia..
sukar untuk berubah kerana kita selalu beranggapan kita lebih baik...
adakah dengan merasakan itu kita sememangnya terbaik?
Maka untuk itu , mari kita mula senyum, ceria, mesra sesama kita
dan tingkat kerjasama dalam kerja,
tak rugi kita semai rasa 'kekeluargaan' dalam tugasan ...
kalau kita kurang kerja, cari la kerja membantu teman-teman yang lain.
Tak dapat gaji lebih pun tak apa sebab pahala dapat..
kita withdraw kat akhirat nanti...
tapi kalau kita asyik dengki mendengki..
nasib la sebab sudah ditentukan jalan yang sukar itu yang kita pilih..
Renungi lah, berapa ramai kawan kita dan berapa ramai lawan kita,
nescaya itulah kayu pengukur diri yang sebaiknya...
"Mengkritik tidak bererti menentang,
Menyetujui tidak semestinya menyokong,
Menegur tidak bermakna membenci,
dan berbeza pendapat adalah kawan berfikir yang baik."
Let us share what Datuk Dr. Fadilah Kamsah used to say :
"Ada orang datang ke pejabat dengan perasaan penuh gembira & ceria ,
ada datang dengan perasaan "biasa" dan ada datang dengan perasaan serba tak kena ."
Ingat lah, sesiapa yang datang hanya dengan perasaan "biasa" saja,
hasilnya adalah "biasa" saja, sesiapa yang datang dengan ceria,
hasilnya akan jadi lebih daripada biasa ataupun luar biasa.
Bekerja la dengan ceria agar menghasilkan produktiviti yang luar biasa yang
akan menggembirakan orang di sekeliling kita.
Semoga hasil itu akan mendapat keberkatan insyallah..."
Jadi renungkan lah....
1. Ada antara kita datang ke pejabat hanya memenuhi tanggungjawab 'DATANG BEKERJA' tapi hampa,
hasilnya macam kita ' TAK DATANG' kerja
2. Ada kala kita rasa kita BUSY giler, rupanya kita hanya 'KELAM KABUT' .
3. Adakala kita rasa kita PERIHATIN , tapi rupanya kita BUSY BODY.
4. Adakala kita rasa kita OPENMINDED and OUTSPOKEN tapi rupanya kita KURANG PENGAJAR'AN.
5. Adakala kita rasa kita berpemikiran KRITIS , rupanya kita hanya lebih kepada
KRITIK yang mencipta KRISIS .
6. Adakala kita rasa kita ingin menjadi LEBIH MESRA tapi rupanya kita di lihat lebih MENGADA-NGADA .
7. Adakala kita suka bertanya 'KENAPA DIA NI MCM TAKDE KEJE', adalah lebih baik kita tanya
'APA LAGI KEJE YANG AKU BOLEH BUAT ?'
8. Adakala kita rasa kita ni pekerja yang SEMPURNA,BAIK DAN BERDEDIKASI tapi cuba tengok dalam-dalam,selagi hati kita berdengki,jatuhkan reputasi sesama rakan sekerja (report kat bos kawan kita tak bagus dari kita)dan tak amanah (mencuri dan tak siapkan kerja),kita sebenarnya patut terima hakikat betapa kita lebih teruk dari anggapan kita itu sendiri.
Pejam mata dan renung lah diri, kalau kita perlu melakukan ANJAKAN PARADIGMA ,
maka lakukanlah segera...tapi manusia tetap manusia..
sukar untuk berubah kerana kita selalu beranggapan kita lebih baik...
adakah dengan merasakan itu kita sememangnya terbaik?
Maka untuk itu , mari kita mula senyum, ceria, mesra sesama kita
dan tingkat kerjasama dalam kerja,
tak rugi kita semai rasa 'kekeluargaan' dalam tugasan ...
kalau kita kurang kerja, cari la kerja membantu teman-teman yang lain.
Tak dapat gaji lebih pun tak apa sebab pahala dapat..
kita withdraw kat akhirat nanti...
tapi kalau kita asyik dengki mendengki..
nasib la sebab sudah ditentukan jalan yang sukar itu yang kita pilih..
Renungi lah, berapa ramai kawan kita dan berapa ramai lawan kita,
nescaya itulah kayu pengukur diri yang sebaiknya...
"Mengkritik tidak bererti menentang,
Menyetujui tidak semestinya menyokong,
Menegur tidak bermakna membenci,
dan berbeza pendapat adalah kawan berfikir yang baik."
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Kuliah Zuhur 28 July 2009
One interesting question was asked to the Ustaz yesterday:
A: Ustaz, saya dengar ceramah dari seorang ustaz minggu lepas yang mengatakan kita boleh jamak zuhur dan asar semasa kenduri kahwin. Betul ke ustaz? Ustaz yang bagi ceramah tu kata dia buat jamak masa kenduri anak dia.
Ustaz: Saya minta maaf tapi saya tak setuju dengan pendapat ustaz tu. Saya menentang sekeras-kerasnya pendapat dia. Tidak ada jamak semasa kenduri. Imam Hambali pun tak pernah bahaskan tentang perkara ini.
A: Tapi ustaz tu kata dia meraikan tetamu. Tetamu kena didahulukan katanya.
Ustaz: Tidak ada hukum yang mendahulukan manusia dalam perkara wajib yang kita perlu tunaikan pada Allah. Urusan kenduri terlalu mudah untuk kita ringankan perihal solat wajib ini.
Ustaz ada menerangkan bahawa haram lelaki memakai inai di jari semasa majlis kahwin kerana ini adalah tingkah laku yang mengikut kaum perempuan.
Ustaz berkongsi satu situasi di mana jika kita ragu-ragu sama ada kita terkentut atau tak selepas ambil wudhu', maka kita masih dalam wudhu' sebab kita ragu je kita kentut, jadi balik ke asal di mana kita masih ada wudhu'.
Wallahu a'lam
A: Ustaz, saya dengar ceramah dari seorang ustaz minggu lepas yang mengatakan kita boleh jamak zuhur dan asar semasa kenduri kahwin. Betul ke ustaz? Ustaz yang bagi ceramah tu kata dia buat jamak masa kenduri anak dia.
Ustaz: Saya minta maaf tapi saya tak setuju dengan pendapat ustaz tu. Saya menentang sekeras-kerasnya pendapat dia. Tidak ada jamak semasa kenduri. Imam Hambali pun tak pernah bahaskan tentang perkara ini.
A: Tapi ustaz tu kata dia meraikan tetamu. Tetamu kena didahulukan katanya.
Ustaz: Tidak ada hukum yang mendahulukan manusia dalam perkara wajib yang kita perlu tunaikan pada Allah. Urusan kenduri terlalu mudah untuk kita ringankan perihal solat wajib ini.
Ustaz ada menerangkan bahawa haram lelaki memakai inai di jari semasa majlis kahwin kerana ini adalah tingkah laku yang mengikut kaum perempuan.
Ustaz berkongsi satu situasi di mana jika kita ragu-ragu sama ada kita terkentut atau tak selepas ambil wudhu', maka kita masih dalam wudhu' sebab kita ragu je kita kentut, jadi balik ke asal di mana kita masih ada wudhu'.
Wallahu a'lam
Friday, July 17, 2009
The Power of Non-Violence
Dr. Arun Gandhi, grandson of Mahatma Gandhi and founder of the M.K.Gandhi Institute for Non-violence, in his June 9 lecture at the University of Puerto Rico , shared the following story:
I was 16 years old and living with my parents at the institute my grandfather had founded 18 miles outside of Durban, South Africa, in the middle of the sugar plantations. We were deep in the country and had no neighbours, so my two sisters and I would always look forward to going to town to visit friends or go to the movies.
One day, my father asked me to drive him to town for an all-day conference, and I jumped at the chance. Since I was going to town, my mother gave me a list of groceries she needed and, since I had all day in town, my father asked me to take care of several pending chores, such as getting the car serviced. When I dropped my father off that morning, he said, "I will meet you here at 5:00 p..m., and we will go home together."
After hurriedly completing my chores, I went straight to the nearest movie theatre. I got so engrossed in a John Wayne double-feature that I forgot the time. It was 5:30 before I remembered. By the time I ran to the garage and got the car and hurried to where my father was waiting for me, it was almost 6:00.
He anxiously asked me, "Why were you late?"
I was so ashamed of telling him I was watching a John Wayne western movie that I said, "The car wasn't ready, so I had to wait," not realizing that he had already called the garage.
When he caught me in the lie, he said: "There's something wrong in the way I brought you up that didn't give you the confidence to tell me the truth. In order to figure out where I went wrong with you, I'm going to walk home 18 miles and think about it."
So, dressed in his suit and dress shoes, he began to walk home in the dark on mostly unpaved, unlit roads.
I couldn't leave him, so for five-and-a-half hours I drove behind him, watching my father go through this agony for a stupid lie that I uttered. I decided then and there that I was never going to lie again.
I often think about that episode and wonder, if he had punished me the way we punish our children, whether I would have learned a lesson at all. I don't think so. I would have suffered the punishment and gone on doing the same thing. But this single non-violent action was so powerful that it is still as if it happened yesterday.
That is the power of non-violence.
I was 16 years old and living with my parents at the institute my grandfather had founded 18 miles outside of Durban, South Africa, in the middle of the sugar plantations. We were deep in the country and had no neighbours, so my two sisters and I would always look forward to going to town to visit friends or go to the movies.
One day, my father asked me to drive him to town for an all-day conference, and I jumped at the chance. Since I was going to town, my mother gave me a list of groceries she needed and, since I had all day in town, my father asked me to take care of several pending chores, such as getting the car serviced. When I dropped my father off that morning, he said, "I will meet you here at 5:00 p..m., and we will go home together."
After hurriedly completing my chores, I went straight to the nearest movie theatre. I got so engrossed in a John Wayne double-feature that I forgot the time. It was 5:30 before I remembered. By the time I ran to the garage and got the car and hurried to where my father was waiting for me, it was almost 6:00.
He anxiously asked me, "Why were you late?"
I was so ashamed of telling him I was watching a John Wayne western movie that I said, "The car wasn't ready, so I had to wait," not realizing that he had already called the garage.
When he caught me in the lie, he said: "There's something wrong in the way I brought you up that didn't give you the confidence to tell me the truth. In order to figure out where I went wrong with you, I'm going to walk home 18 miles and think about it."
So, dressed in his suit and dress shoes, he began to walk home in the dark on mostly unpaved, unlit roads.
I couldn't leave him, so for five-and-a-half hours I drove behind him, watching my father go through this agony for a stupid lie that I uttered. I decided then and there that I was never going to lie again.
I often think about that episode and wonder, if he had punished me the way we punish our children, whether I would have learned a lesson at all. I don't think so. I would have suffered the punishment and gone on doing the same thing. But this single non-violent action was so powerful that it is still as if it happened yesterday.
That is the power of non-violence.
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Ahmad Farhan
I forgot to give kakha my so called handmade card, so I post it here..
Semoga menjadi anak yang soleh, dan berjaya dunia akhirat... :)
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Thank you b
This time around... i have a rather challenging experience carrying my 2nd baby.
Not only for me, but for my hubby too, indeed it's challenging for him the most...
He takes care of Aneesa, the chores...everything.
He washes the clothes, feeds Aneesa, cleans the mess she make..every single day..no complaints..
I just want to thank you b..for all the sacrifices. I am thankful to Allah for you.
And to Aneesa, you are lucky to have babah cos he loves you very much to tolerate and pamper you!
Not only for me, but for my hubby too, indeed it's challenging for him the most...
He takes care of Aneesa, the chores...everything.
He washes the clothes, feeds Aneesa, cleans the mess she make..every single day..no complaints..
I just want to thank you b..for all the sacrifices. I am thankful to Allah for you.
And to Aneesa, you are lucky to have babah cos he loves you very much to tolerate and pamper you!
Monday, June 01, 2009
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